It is permissible to speak while performing ablution. There
is nothing reported from the sunnah that prohibits it. Making
supplications while washing the extremities is based on false
hadith. It is best for the person to use only the supplications
mentioned under the Sunnah Acts of Ablution. If the person
who is making ablution has a doubt concerning how many times
he has washed a particular part of the body, he should go
by the number he is certain about. If any barrier or substance
with weight, such as wax, is found on the body, it would invalidate
one's ablution unless it is removed and the ablution is performed
again. Coloring, like henna, is permissible, as it does not
affect the ablution's correctness. People with unusual circumstances
(i.e. women with "prolonged flows of blood"), people who cannot
control their urine, people with flatulence, and so on, should
perform one ablution for each prayer whether their problem
exists all or part of the time. Their prayers will be acceptable
even while their problems are occuring. One may be assisted
by others in performing ablution. One may use a towel to dry
himself during any time of the year.