WOMAN
A CROSS CULTURE PERSPECTIVE
Islam has achieved far more for women's
emancipation and equality than what many of today's feminists realize.
Judging Islam by their own secularized and often atheist standards,
many members of the feminist's movement denounce the way of life chosen
by Allah for woman and man, without knowing or deeply understanding
what they are really criticizing. It is only Islam that has lifted women
from the abyss of oppression to previously unknown levels of freedom
and respectability, levels which are unmatched even in today's so called
"civilized" world.
GREEK AND ROMAN CIVILIZATION
In the days of ignorance, prior to the
advent of Islam, women in many cultures throughout the world were considered
little more than commodities, objects of desire to be bought and sold
like livestock. According to Prof. Wil Durant, "In Rome, the man alone
had any rights before the law in the early republic; he alone could
buy, hold or sell property, or make contracts. Even his wife's dowry
in this period belonged to him; if his wife was accused of a crime she
was committed to him for judgement, and he could punish her by condemning
her to death for infidelity or for stealing the keys to his wine cellar.
Over his children he had the power of life, death and sale into slavery...
Birth itself was an adventure in Rome. If the child was deformed or
female, the father was permitted by custom to expose it to death".'
Neither did the Greek philosophers show
a great deal of concern for females. Aristotle stated: "... We may thus
conclude that it is a natural law that there should be naturally ruling
elements and elements naturally ruled ... The rule of the freeman over
the slave is one kind of rule; that of the male over the female another...
The slave is entirely without the faculty of deliberation; the female
indeed possesses it, but it is a form which remains inconclusive".'
The Greeks considered women to belong
to the third (lowest) rank of society. If a woman gave birth to a deformed
child, it was common practice to kill her. In Sparta, which was acknowledged
as an elite society, a woman who could no longer bear children was put
to death. The Spartans also took women away from their husbands to be
inseminated by "brave and strong men" of other communities. The Greeks
in general considered women to be insignificant creatures who could
not be dear to the "gods".
Hippolytus' invective against women, in
the tragedy by Euripides, sums up the Greek view:
"O Zeus, whatever possessed you to
put an ambiguous misfortune amongst men by bringing women to the light
of day? If you really wanted to sow the race of mortals, why did it
have to be born of women? How much better it would be if men could buy
the seed of sons, paying for it with gold, iron or bronze in your temples,
and could live free, without women in their houses".2
JUDAISM
Orthodox Jews who have held on to the
classical teachings of Judaism have come under great strain from within
as their practices are seen as sexually oppressive. The Talmud, a
book pertaining to the Jewish civil and ceremonial law, states, 'It
is impossible for there to be a world without males and females. Nevertheless
happy is the man whose children are males and woe to the man whose children
are females'.3
Superiority of the male child is further
emphasized by several customs. On the birth of a male child the parents
invite guests to a Kiddush, a celebratory meal after Sabbath,
where there is no such custom after the birth of a female child. In
education, it is not considered appropriate to educate the females beyond
what is necessary to learn regarding the practices ordained in the Jewish
scriptures to the women.' When a boy reaches adulthood a ritual
called, her mitzvah, ‘son of the commandment’ further celebrates his
maturity. The boy who has now become a man can be counted to make up
a quorum, (minyan), which is needed for certain prayers and for
public worship in the synagogue, for which ten free male adults are
required. Whereas women cannot be counted to make up a quorum (minyan).2
There are no parallel celebration for women in Jewish custom. The inequality
and injunction towards female oppression is further to be found in the
law relating to divorce. A woman has no right of divorce. Even if her
husband disappears without trace, without the evidence of his death,
she can not remarry3. A man has the only right of divorce, and many
men have abused this right by abandoning women but not divorcing them,
thereby restricting them to remarry.
According to Le Bonn the male Orthodox
Jew solemnly recites, "Blessed art Thou, O Lord our God, King of the
Universe, that I was not born a female".
The inequalities in Jewish scriptures
and traditions is experiencing pressure for change, from within, to
be more equitable. The liberating ideologies have brought many changes
to Judaism. There has been a recent introduction for the celebration
of a girl attaining puberty called: bar mitzvah (compared with
boys called bar mitzvah). In education, despite the ruling of
Zohar, that the Torah was meant only to be given over to males,4 the
girls education has become an established feature. In divorce, today
the law has been changed so that the couples first turn towards the
state courts for separation and then gain a religious divorce.
HINDUISM
Women fared little better in other belief-systems.
In Hinduism, the perfect woman is the pativrata, the devoted
wife whose entire existence is dedicated to her husband. The very word
pativrata says it all: "she whose vow ( vista) is to her
husband ( pati) ". During her lifetime, the good Hindu wife is
expected to regard her husband as her own personal god, for the man
ordained to be a woman's husband is regarded as far more than a man:
he is the incarnation of the supreme law in her life, the definition
and summation of her religious duty. After a blameless life, such a
woman should ideally die before her husband. If by some mischance she
does not, then she may put that right by taking her own life on her
husband's funeral pyre. This horrific rite, known as satee, was
until very recently still being practiced in India, and the government
has had to intervene to abolish it. Nevertheless, for devout Hindus
a woman who is satee is worshipped as a goddess, the perfect
example of the self-sacrificing wife.'
A book on the ancient discipline of Sanskrit
religious law, Draramasastra, includes a chapter on "the religious
status and duties of women," stridharmapaddhati. The author (or,
more accurately, the compiler) of this work, Tryambaka, was an orthodox
pandit living in Thanjavur, in what is now the southern Indian state
of Tamil Nadu. The ruling on women generally places them at the level
of a subordinate citizen. For example: a wife has no right over her
husband's property. Property owned jointly by the wife and husband may
be distributed by the husband alone, but the wife needs his permission.
Even with various kinds of 'women's property', such as gifts from her
husband or her own family, a woman still needs her husbands permission
to exercise her rights of ownership.
Tryambaka's stark message is defined in
three ways. Firstly, a wife should have no regard for her own life.
Secondly, she should even allow herself to be sold, if her husband should
wish it. Thirdly, obedience to her husband takes precedence over all
other duties, including religious ones. In essence, however, this law
contains only one point: that a woman's highest duty is to her husband.
ARABIA PRE ISLAM
Prior to Islam, in Arabia, the Arabs treated
women with contempt: it was customary for infant gals to be buried alive
at birth. Men could have as many wives as they wished, and all were
effectively enslaved, and would be inherited as possessions when the
husband died. Among the pre-Islamic Arabs, when a man died, his eldest
son or other close relative had the right to possess his widow or widows,
marrying them himself if he so desired.
Before and during the time of the Prophet
Muhammad Hi, Persia was ruled by the Sassanids who practiced Zoroastrianism.
Their faith demanded total obedience of the wife to the husband. A wife
was required to declare, "I will never cease, all my life, to obey my
husband". Failure to do so would lead to divorce. A wife had no say
in any matters and her husband could lend her, for a fee, to others.
If a woman did not produce any children, she would be abandoned, if
she was lucky; more often than not, a barren wife would be killed.
EUROPE
Britain and most of Europe, in the same
period was just recovering from the lengthy Roman occupation, which
was followed by the arrival of Christianity. European society was a
highly fragmented one, in which tribal wars and kingly struggles to
gain control over the land and people were commonplace. With very few
exceptions, women had little or no active role to play in such affairs.
As the dawn of Islam was starting to illuminate the long shadow of oppression
on women, the French in the same period (586 CE) were claiming compassion
and civility by passing a resolution, after great deliberation and controversy,
that woman can be classified as a human being, however she is created
for the sole purpose of serving man.'
CHRISTIANITY
The title of this section, by definition,
is somewhat ambiguous, since the term 'Christianity' covers such a varied
set of beliefs and practices. As one commentator put it, "Christianity
is always adapting itself into that which is believable". (Or not, as
the case may be). The apparent flexibility of this religion creates
immediate problems for discussions, since it is easy for anyone to counter
what is said about Christianity with the latest amended pronouncements
of the Vatican, or Anglican Synod, or of other Churches. It is very
much like trying to describe a desert landscape controlled by moving
sand. The broad nature of Christian division must also be kept in mind:
what holds true in one sect, such as the Church of England (Anglicanism),
may not be true in another, such as Roman Catholicism. Nevertheless,
if we look to the supposed sources of Christianity, the Old and New
Testaments of the Bible, and the scholarly work produced elsewhere,
there is sufficient evidence to suggest that women have, over the centuries,
received a raw deal from the Mother (!) Church.
According to the Encyclopaedia Britannica,
"Christianity did not bring a revolutionary social change to the position
of women". Indeed, "in the world of the early church, women were held
in very low esteem, and this was the basis for divorce practices that
put women practically at men's complete disposal". This is in keeping
with the "Old Testament view of marriage as an institution primarily
concerned with the establishment of a family, rather than sustaining
the individual happiness of the marriage partners", a view which has
"strongly influenced" Christianity.
When the "Kingdom of God" is established,
marriage which was understood to be a part of the old, passing, order
will not exist. According to the Bible as it exists today, the risen
ones will "neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like
the angels in heaven". (Mark 12:25). Similarly, St. Paul's understanding
of marriage in the light of the coming kingdom of God was as follows:
"... the time is short. From now on those who have wives should live
as if they had none... For the world in its present form is passing
away". (1 Corinthians 7:29-30). The early Christians believed that the
end of time was relatively near, so marriage was not deemed worthwhile,
as it would involve what were regarded as unnecessary troubles: "I would
like you to be free from concern" (1 Corinthians 7:32). So it was felt
that the unmarried, widowers and widows would fare better if they did
not marry. Celibacy was demanded, not only of ascetics and monks, but
of increasing numbers of the clergy, as a matter of duty.
The Bible, a book which conclusive evidence
proves to have been written by men and to contain only fragments of
the original revealed Books given to Prophets over the centuries (including
the Torah, Psalms and Gospel), contain many references to the position
of women in society. For example:
"As in all the congregations of the
saints, women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed
to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says". (1 Corinthians
14:33-34)
The ideology of the female being
inferior is indoctrinated from birth:
"... A woman who becomes pregnant
and gives birth to a son will be ceremonially unclean for seven days...
If she gives birth to a daughter, for two weeks the woman will be
unclean....". (Leviticus 12:1,5)
"Wives, submit to your husbands... For
the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church".
(Ephesians 5:22 23)
"Then the Lord God said to the woman,
'What is this you have done?' The woman said, 'The serpent deceived
me, and I ate.' ... To the woman he said, 'I will greatly increase your
pains in childbearing; with pain will you give birth to children. Your
desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you'." (Genesis
3:13.16)
St. Paul said: "The head of the woman
is the man ... for a man ... is the image and glory of God. I suffer
not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be
in silence". '
Based on the Biblical image of Eve as
a seductive temptress, Christian theologians have historically associated
women with sexuality and viewed her with deep suspicion, loathing and
fear. Throughout the history of Christianity and the Roman Church, theologians,
moralists and ethicists have inveighed against women as corrupt, weak,
lustful and evil "daughters of Eve", who are to be shunned and avoided
at all costs.2 The post-Christian feminist Mary Daly insists that since
the Genesis stories were written by men, and their conception of God
is irrevocably androcentric, they cannot be applied to or by women.
Interestingly, in his 1988 Encyclical,
Pope John Paul II stated his belief that mothers are more important
than fathers when it comes to raising children. There is no connection
between man's procreative role in conception and their social role as
fathers, and it is only I mothers who are socially defined by their
procreative role.
BRITISH HISTORY
English common law stated that upon marriage,
a woman lost the rights she possessed when single. All of her property
transferred to her husband and both she and it fell under his complete
control. He did not even have to account to her. She could not transfer
her property, nor enter into contracts in her own name, nor could she
sue or be sued. In effect, marriage meant civil death.
A court case in 1840, quoted by O'Faolain
and Martines, highlights how insignificantly women were held in British
society:
"The question raised in this case is,
singularly whether by common law the husband, in order to prevent his
wife from eloping, has a right to confine her in his own dwellings and
restrain her from liberty, for an indefinite time... There can be no
doubt the husband has by law power and dominion over his wife, and may
keep her by force... and beat her, but not in a violent or cruel manner".'
As late as 1856, women in Britain were
not allowed to keep their earnings, and had no rights of inheritance.
In that year, women petitioned parliament, which was composed solely
of male members, to allow married women to keep their own earnings and
inherited property. In 1857, divorced women were granted the same rights
as single women, but married women had to wait until 1893 to receive
the same rights.
Throughout the nineteenth century, women
became more aware of their lack of basic rights in society, and towards
the end of the century, a significant movement for change developed,
and the suffragettes campaigned for women's right to vote. The political
franchise had for centuries been restricted to property owners only,
and had only recently (in the mid nineteenth century) been extended
to all males over the age of 21. Women had to wait until 1928 for this
right to be granted to them. Equal pay for equal work took longer: This
was not won until 1975. It is clear, then, that Western Europe in general,
and Britain in particular, were very late in developing basic rights
and equal status for women, contrary to what the moral high ground taken
by critics of Islam portray.
This is the global context into which
the Prophet of Mercy, Muhammad brought his message, and liberated women
from the oppression of men and offered them the shade, mercy and equality
of Islam. At a time when the entire world treated women with contempt,
when women were unable even to question their status, let alone demand
basic human and civic rights, Islam came like a beacon blazing forth
in the darkness liberating and elevating them.
To discuss how Islam enhanced the role
and status of women in seventh-century Arabia, without addressing present
day issues would be a great disservice to the readers. Islam (submission
to the will of the Creator, Allah) which all the Prophets called
to, is the religion for all the people and for all times, equally applicable
to all.
How many of today's feminists supposedly,
fighting against oppression and subjugation of women, would disagree
that women l should be viewed as the equals of men? That female infanticide,
for any reason, be it social or economic, is evil? Those in theological
terms, women should be viewed as equal with men in the sight of the
Almighty, and be rewarded equally for their virtues? That, as wives,
they are entitled to mutual consultation in the affairs of their families?
That they should be allowed to possess assets and have a right to their
own businesses and incomes? That they should be entitled to inherit
from their parents, husbands and other relatives? That they should be
allowed to live freely without the fear of being molested or raped?
That they should be free from the danger of sexual harassment and should
not be portrayed merely as sex objects or as objects of male desires?
That the honour of their bodies be protected from pornographic portrayals?
That their suffering in childbirth should be recognized, appreciated
and rewarded? For all of these basic rights and more, women of all colours,
creeds and social status have had to fight tooth and nail. It is only
Islam that has promoted women's rights from the very outset. Islam granted
them liberation from the evils of inequality, hundreds of years, before
the word "liberation" became fashionable.
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