History
has recorded that he is the only person who was born inside
the Kabah itself.
Together
with a group of friends, his mother had gone inside this ancient
House of God to inspect it. On that particular day it was
open because of a festive occasion. She was pregnant and labor
pains suddenly gripped her. She was unable to leave the Kabah.
A leather mat was brought to her and she gave birth on it.
The child was named Hakim. His father was Hazm who was the
son of Khuwaylid. Hakim was therefore the nephew of the Lady
Khadijah, the daughter of Khuwaylid, may Allah be pleased
with her.
Hakim
grew up in a wealthy and noble family which enjoyed a high
status in Makkan society. He was also an intelligent and well-mannered
person who was well respected by his people. He was held in
such esteem that he was given the responsibility of the rifadah
which involved giving assistance to the needy and those who
had lost their property during the season of pilgrimage. He
took this responsibility seriously and would even help needy
pilgrims from his own resources.
Hakim
was a very close friend of the Prophet, peace be on him, before
the latter's call to prophethood. Even though he was five
years older than the Prophet, he used to spend much time talking
to him and enjoying hours of pleasant companionship. Muhammad
in his turn felt great affection for Hakim.
Their
relationship was further strengthened when the Prophet married
his aunt, Khadijah bint Khuwaylid.
What
is truly amazing is that in spite of the close friendship
between Hakim and the Prophet, Hakim did not become a Muslim
until the conquest of Makkah, more than twenty years after
the start of the Prophet's mission. One would have thought
that someone like Hakim whom God had blessed with a sound
intellect and who was so well-disposed to the Prophet, would
have been among the first to believe in him and follow the
guidance he brought. But that was not to be.
Just
as we are astonished at the late acceptance of Islam on the
part of Hakim, he himself later in life was also amazed. In
fact, as soon as he accepted Islam and tasted the sweetness
of iman (faith), he began to feel deep regret for every moment
of his life as a mushrik and a denier of God's religion and
of His Prophet.
His
son once saw him weeping after his acceptance of Islam and
asked: "Why are you weeping, my father'?" "Many things cause
me to weep, my dear son. The most grievous is the length of
time it took for me to become a Muslim. Acceptance of Islam
would have given me so many opportunities to do good which
I missed even if I were to have spent the earth in gold. My
life was spared at the battle of Badr and also at the battle
of Uhud. After Uhud. I said to myself. I would not help any
Quraysh against Muhammad, may the peace and blessings of God
be upon him, and I would not leave Makkah. Then, whenever
I felt like accepting Islam I would look at other men among
the Quraysh, men of power and maturity who remained firmly
attached to the ideas and practices of Jahiliyyah and I would
fall in line with them and their neighbors... Oh, how I wish
I had not done so. Nothing has destroyed us except the blind
following of our forefathers and elders. Why should I not
weep, my son?"
The
Prophet himself was puzzled. A man of sagacity and understanding
like Hakim ibn Hazm, how could Islam remain "hidden" from
him?. For a long time, the Prophet had dearly hoped that he
and a group of persons like him would take the initiative
and become Muslims. On the night before the liberation of
Makkah, he, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to
his companions:
"There
are four persons in Makkah whom I consider to be above having
any dealing with shirk and I would dearly like them to accept
Islam." "Who are they, O Messenger of God?" asked the companions.
"Attab ibn Usayd, Jubayr ibn Mutim, Hakim ibn Hazm and Suhayl
ibn Amr," replied the Prophet. By the grace of God, they all
became Muslims.
When
the Prophet, peace be on him, entered Makkah to liberate the
city from polytheism and the ways of ignorance and immorality,
he ordered his herald to proclaim: "Whoever declares that
there is no god but Allah alone, that He has no partner and
that Muhammad is His servant and His Messenger, he is safe...
Whoever
sits at the Kabah and lays down his weapons, he is safe. Whoever
enters the house of Abu Sufyan, he is safe.
Whoever
enters the house of Hakim ibn Hazm, he is safe..." The house
of Abu Sufyan was in the higher part of Makkah and that of
Hakim was in the lower part of the city. By proclaiming these
houses as places of sanctuary, the Prophet wisely accorded
recognition to both Abu Sufyan and Hakim, weakening any thought
they might have of resisting and making it easier for them
to be more favorably disposed to him and his mission.
Hakim
embraced Islam wholeheartedly. He vowed to himself that he
would atone for whatever he had done during his Jahili days
and that whatever amounts he had spent in opposing the Prophet,
he would spend the same amounts in the cause of Islam.
He
owned the Dar an-Nadwah, an important and historic building
in Makkah, where the Quraysh held their conferences during
the days of Jahiliyyah. In this building the Quraysh leaders
and chieftains would gather to plot against the Prophet.
Hakim
decided to get rid of it and cut himself off from its past
associations which were now so painful to him. He sold the
building for one hundred thousand dirhams. A Quraysh youth
exclaimed to him: "You have sold something of great historical
value and pride to the Quraysh, uncle."
"Come
now, my son," replied Hakim. "All vain pride and glory has
now gone and all that remains of value is taqwa - consciousness
of God. I have only sold the building in order to acquire
a house in Paradise. I swear to you that I have given the
proceeds from it to be spent in the path of God Almighty."
Hakim
ibn Hazm performed the Hajj after becoming a Muslim. He took
with him one hundred fine camels and sacrificed them all in
order to achieve nearness to God. In the following Hajj, he
stood on Arafat. With him were one hundred slaves. To each
he gave a pendant of silver on which was engraved: "Free for
the sake of God Almighty from Hakim ibn Hazm." On a third
Hajj, he took with him a thousand sheep - yes a thousand sheep
and sacrificed them all at Mina to feed the poor Muslims in
order to attain nearness to God.
While
Hakim was generous in his spending for the sake of God, he
also still liked to have much. After the battle of Hunayn,
he asked the Prophet for some of the booty which the Prophet
gave. He then asked for more and the Prophet gave him more.
Hakim was still a newcomer to Islam and the Prophet was more
generous to newcomers so as to reconcile their hearts to Islam.
Hakim ended up with a large share of the booty. But the Prophet
peace be upon him, told him:
"O
Hakim! This wealth is indeed sweet and attractive. Whoever
takes it and is satisfied will be blessed by it and whoever
takes out of greed will not be blessed. He would be like someone
who eats and is not satisfied. The upper hand is better than
the lower hand (it is better to give than to receive)."
The
kind words of advice had a deep and immediate effect on Hakim.
He was mortified and said to the Prophet: "O Messenger of
God! By Him who has sent you with the truth, I shall not ask
anyone after you for anything."
During
the caliphate of Abu Bakr, Hakim was called several times
to collect his stipend from the Bayt al-mal but he refused
to take any money. He did the same during the caliphate of
Umar ibn al-Khattab whereupon Umar addressed the Muslims:
"I testify to you, O Muslims, that I have called Hakim to
collect his stipend but he refuses."
Hakim
remained faithful to his word. He did not take anything from
anyone until he passed away. From the Prophet, he had learnt
the great truth that contentment is riches beyond compare.